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You’re Allowed to Want a More Beautiful Life

Elena Sullivan — Fri, 16 Jan 2026 15:23:19 +0000

The first soft rays of sunlight appear on the horizon, and I pull back the curtain to let them spill into the room, breathing in that unmistakable freshness of morning on the Costa del Sol. Clouds drift across the sky in playful shapes and shifting colors, gathering around the rising sun like dancers circling a spotlight. Seagulls swoop and chatter overhead, their voices weaving into the rhythm of dawn, making it impossible not to pause and notice.

It was here in Marbella, during that very first week after relocating to Spain, that my husband and I found ourselves completely still, just watching the sunrise. Something so ordinary and yet so deeply beautiful. And in that simple moment, I felt a quiet reminder that a beautiful life isn’t defined by extravagance; it’s made of small moments that catch your breath and connect you back to yourself.

Sunrises are never the same, perhaps that’s what makes them magical and perhaps that is one of the simplest ways to make your life better every single day.

When I speak about wanting a more beautiful life, I know the word can be misunderstood.

I don’t mean shiny perfection, more money, yachts, designer logos, polished marble, or curated displays of luxury.

Beautiful, to me, means something more intimate, something that nourishes the mind and heart, that enriches the imagination, that reminds you what it feels like to be awake inside your own life.

And learning to notice it, to pause for it, is one of the most profound ways to improve your life without changing your circumstances.

In 2013, I flew to Cancun with one red suitcase, a story I’ve shared before in these articles “When happiness is packed in one red suitcase” and “How traveling solo with a one-way ticket changed my life?”

Seeing the Caribbean for the first time was like stepping into a postcard. The water was warm even in autumn, the sand bright white, the calmest turquoise waves lapping at the shore. I fell in love instantly.

But nine years later, something shifted quietly.

The coastline, which had once felt like paradise, became predictable. Sargassum seaweed washed up on the beaches, and instead of marveling at the color of the sea, I found myself noticing the smell. And although I enjoyed photographing the people there, creatively I felt boxed in, the light rarely changed, the scenery offered little contrast, and I found myself longing for shadows, textures, angles, anything different to turn that inner spark.

I wasn’t physically tired. I was creatively and emotionally tired, and craving a change.

That’s what can happen when we stay in one place too long without allowing ourselves to wander, to explore, to step into new landscapes and perspectives.

Sometimes, a beautiful life begins simply with a different life, a change that awakens the senses and helps you change your life from the inside out.

Beauty Isn’t Shallow. It’s Something We’re Wired For

Long before Instagram feeds and curated photo walls, beauty was woven into human existence. It lived in carved temples, in pottery, in music, in textiles, in the way people decorated their bodies and homes.

As an art student in Saint Petersburg, I visited the Hermitage Museum more times than I can count. Some visits thrilled me; others felt like just another assignment. But those countless hours taught me something deeper than art history, they shaped the way I saw. The proportions, the light, the lines, the textures; the quiet education of beauty seeped into my bones.

Wanting beauty is not frivolous it is instinctive, ancient and deeply human. And for many women, that desire to create, seek, and surround ourselves with beauty feels especially natural. Learning to honor it is a simple, elegant way to make your life better each day.

You’re Allowed to Have a Beautiful Life

Most of us know the inner protest well:

I don’t have time for this.

I have too many responsibilities.

It’s not practical, not necessary, not serious.

But someone else is allowed to want a promotion.

Someone else is allowed to dream of a family, a house, a luxury car.

So why shouldn’t you be allowed to want a life that feels inspiring, nourishing, textured, and alive?

Your dreams are valid, even if they don’t fit society’s usual categories. Longing for beauty, noticing it, and seeking it intentionally is how you improve your life, even in small, quiet ways.

How Spain Reawakens Your Eye for Beauty

Moving to Spain reminded me that beauty isn’t something to collect, it’s something to notice.

Here, beauty lives in the light bouncing off old stone walls, in tiled floors worn by centuries of footsteps, in a café terrace where time moves slower than the clock. It is in the food: olives, bread, anchovies, oranges and in the rituals of everyday living.

Through photography, especially macro photography, I learned a simple truth: you only notice beauty when you slow down enough to see it. First you pause. Then you look. And suddenly the ordinary becomes extraordinary. And that is one of the most immediate ways to change your life, to feel it fuller, richer, more awake (visit my online Macro Photos Gallery here).

Walking through Marbella’s narrow streets, breathing in the scent of citrus and sea salt, I realized that beauty has never left, I had simply stopped noticing it. Spain taught me what Cancun first revealed and then quietly took away: that beauty is everywhere, scattered across the world like clues, waiting for those who pay attention.

Wanting a beautiful life is not an escape from reality, it is a deeper participation in it, and that act itself begins to make your life better.

Beauty Lives in the Moment You’re In

So if you feel that pull, that gentle whisper that life could hold more color, more meaning, more small miracles — follow it.

Visit the museum you’ve passed a thousand times. Wake up for the sunrise. Sit at the café and watch people go by. Wander down a different street. Step into a story, even a small one.

A beautiful life doesn’t require permission, or perfect timing, or a bigger budget. It begins the moment you allow yourself to want it and the moment you choose, even in the tiniest way, to seek it. These small acts: noticing, exploring, pausing, are how you improve your life, one moment at a time.

Maybe it all starts with something as simple as sunlight slipping through a curtain in a country you weren’t born in, a reminder that you are allowed to desire a more beautiful life, that you can change your life, and that beauty, once invited, will always find a way to meet you halfway.

Longing for beauty doesn’t make you selfish. It makes you profoundly, unmistakably alive.

All images in this article were taken by Elena Sullivan, ArsVie Photo Studio and are protected by copyright. If you are interested in using any of the them, please contact me for permission. Thank you for understanding!

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What flowers teach us about seasons of life

Elena Sullivan — Fri, 04 Jul 2025 20:44:33 +0000

Have you ever brought home a small bunch of flowers and noticed how they instantly lift the mood of a room and maybe even your own mood too? There is something quietly healing about having beauty close by. Flowers don’t just decorate our spaces; they remind us to slow down, notice, and reconnect.

Seasons of Life Are Not All About Doing More

We live in a culture that values constant productivity, but nature works differently. Flowers don’t bloom all year long. They grow, rest, adapt, and wait for the right conditions without questioning their timing. This is a gentle reminder that growth isn’t always obvious or fast. Sometimes it’s slow, internal, or invisible, and that’s perfectly okay.

As women juggling work, family, self-care, and dreams, it’s easy to feel like we’re behind or that we must always be “on.” But flowers remind us:

You’re not behind. You’re simply in a different part of your season.

Growth includes rest. You don’t have to be “on” all the time to be becoming something beautiful.

Try this today:

Take 5 minutes to notice something small around you – the sky, leaves, or a flower.
Ask yourself: What season am I in right now?
Write down one thing you’re learning in this season, even if it feels messy or slow.
Surround yourself with reminders that help you stay connected to what’s real and beautiful.

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Real-Life Resilience and Gentle Strength

Resilience isn’t about bouncing back immediately or pushing through with a smile. It’s the quiet ability to keep going gently.

Like flowers that bend in the wind, lose petals, and don’t bloom every day, we can practice a flexible, human kind of strength.

Think of the mom who keeps going despite exhaustion, the woman rebuilding after loss, the creative reigniting her passion, or the friend quietly holding space for others. This is real resilience.

You can have a tough week and still be growing. You can feel overwhelmed and still be in your season.

You’re allowed to pause and rest while trusting that something beautiful is unfolding beneath the surface.

Letting Go Is Making Space for New Growth

One of the most important things flowers do is let go, dropping petals or leaves that no longer serve them.

Often, what holds us back isn’t lack of time or talent, but old expectations, fears, or the pressure to be perfect.

Letting go of this invisible weight isn’t giving up. It’s making space for rest, creativity, and what truly matters.

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How to Apply These Life Lessons from Flowers

Here are three practical ways to bring flower-inspired wisdom into your life:

Name Your Current Season
Honestly ask yourself: Am I planting, blooming, resting, or recovering? Recognizing your season helps you honor your needs and stop fighting your natural rhythm.
Build in Pause Moments
Create small breaks in your day – step outside, notice light through the window, or admire something beautiful. These moments calm your mind and improve your focus.
Let Go of One Thing This Week
Choose one expectation, task, or pressure to release. Notice how much lighter and clearer you feel when you drop that burden.

Flowers don’t bloom year-round, and neither should we.

If you’re in a quiet season, honor that. If you’re blooming, celebrate it. Both are valid and needed

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Follow the white rabbit inspirational idea

Elena Sullivan — Sun, 02 Mar 2025 20:50:40 +0000

Sometimes, you meet people who carry a message for you, not literally, like a text on your phone or words scribbled on paper, but in the form of an inspiring, invisible story delivered casually through a conversation. These encounters might revolve around personal stories where they share fascinating experiences, unknowingly planting seeds of inspiration in your mind.

I call these people “White Rabbits,” inspired by the character from Lewis Carroll’s classic, “Alice in Wonderland,”published in 1865.

In the story, the White Rabbit appears suddenly and leads Alice on a journey into an extraordinary world. Similarly, in 2013, I met my own “White Rabbits,” whose words ignited in me the courage to travel and move overseas. Their influence, though unintentional, opened a door to a new and exciting chapter of my life.

The beauty of White Rabbits is that they are often unaware of their role.

They don’t see themselves as mentors, teachers, or life coaches. Instead, they simply share a glimpse of their world, offering you the chance to view life from a different perspective. The choice to step through the door they’ve opened is entirely yours: you can either embrace the opportunity to explore or take a quick look and close it.

What Do You Have to Do to Meet Your “White Rabbit”?

Since all this theory is my personal exploration and has no scientific basis, I can only answer with suggestions, starting with: “I think you need…”

Ask yourself interesting questions: Reflect on what truly excites you or what you’ve always wanted to explore. Curiosity can lead you to paths where White Rabbits might appear.
Have new experiences: Step out of your routine. Try something different, like visiting a new place, taking up a hobby, or attending an event.
Meet new people: Expand your social circle by connecting with individuals from different backgrounds or interests. Each new person you meet brings a unique perspective.
Answer your “call of the wild”: Pay attention to the things that ignite a sense of adventure or longing in you, and act on them.
Be ready to explore beyond your comfort zone: Growth happens when you’re willing to embrace uncertainty and take on new challenges.

Small changes in your daily routine can lead to significant discoveries. The key is to remain open and curious. When you’re actively seeking inspiration and willing to explore, you’re far more likely to encounter the White Rabbits that can guide you toward new and exciting possibilities.

How Do You Know if That Person Is Your White Rabbit?

Recognizing your White Rabbit is a deeply personal experience, but there are signs that can help you identify them. Here are some clues:

Their Words Resonate Deeply: When they speak, it feels like their story or perspective is meant just for you. Their words might touch on something you’ve been pondering or struggling with, offering clarity or a new way of thinking.
You Feel an Instant Connection: Whether they are a stranger or someone you know, there’s an inexplicable sense of familiarity or ease in their presence. Their energy feels warm and inviting.
They Inspire Curiosity: After your encounter, you find yourself asking questions or feeling curious about the possibilities they’ve hinted at. They make you want to explore and learn more.
They Challenge Your Perspective: A White Rabbit often helps you see beyond your current viewpoint, encouraging you to consider ideas or paths you hadn’t before.
The Timing Feels Serendipitous: Their appearance in your life feels like perfect timing, as if the universe placed them there for a reason. They might say exactly what you need to hear in that moment.

Ultimately, your White Rabbit will leave you with a sense of wonder and a spark of inspiration. Trust your intuition, as it often knows when someone’s message is meant for you. Embrace these moments and allow them to guide you toward new possibilities.

What Will Happen When You Follow the White Rabbit?

Remember how the story of Alice goes? She follows the White Rabbit and finds herself in Wonderland. It’s not a perfect place, nor is it a tropical paradise, but it turns into an incredible adventure filled with unexpected twists and life-changing discoveries. That’s what might happen to anyone who chooses to follow their “White Rabbit.”

When you follow a White Rabbit in your life, you open yourself up to a journey of exploration.

It won’t always be easy or comfortable, and you might encounter challenges along the way. But those challenges often lead to growth, new perspectives, and unforgettable experiences.

Like Alice, you might find yourself stepping into a world you never imagined. It could be a career opportunity, a creative project, or even a new place to call home. The adventure may not look like what you expected, but it will always hold the potential to transform your life in meaningful ways.

Following the White Rabbit is an act of trust. Trusting yourself to take risks, embrace change, and be open to the unknown. And while the destination is uncertain, the journey itself is what makes it worthwhile.

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How to move to another country in a year?

Elena Sullivan — Wed, 13 Nov 2024 02:53:52 +0000

The idea of writing an article about “How to move to another country?” was inspired by my personal experience. In 2013, I moved from Saint Petersburg to Cancun, Mexico. In between, I traveled solo around Spain and visited Barcelona, Valencia, Sevilla, and Madrid.

My unforgettable solo travel experience resulted in an even more exciting experience in Cancun, where I lived for nine years. I came here with a one-way ticket, 3000 dollars in my bank account, and I knew no one there.

I didn’t know I would stay there for so long; I wanted to experience traveling solo and learn about different cultures. I was planning my trip from the perspective of a short-term stay abroad that still took a long time to plan.

Nowadays, with the experiences I had, I would plan it differently, but we can’t change the past and only have one life to live, so I’m satisfied with how it happened.

Do you want to move to a different country permanently or temporarily? If you answered – permanently, a good rule of thumb is to visit the country and city you plan to move to before the big move. One thing is reading articles and watching videos, where people share their own (subjective) opinions. Another thing is experiencing it on your own.

I didn’t have a chance to travel to Mexico before my big trip because my finances were minimal. I could have done it only once and made it work. And I did. Today, having all that experience behind me, I write with certainty if you want to move to another county forever, better visit it for a short stay before packing all your belongings.

How to move to a different country step by step

Here is a basic list of things to consider when moving to a different country.

Decide where you want to move
Research the country, the city you plan on moving
Find out the price of living, apartment/house rent, food prices
Set a timeline for moving to another country
Find out the visa requirements and apply for one if needed
Prepare insurance and health care documents
Check out all the tax obligations
Prepare all the documents
Buy the tickets
Plan your finances
Arrange shipping of your things
Think through the housing situation
Plan your work or business in advance
Hire a local guide to show you around for the first couple of days

That’s a smart way to plan to move to another country. In my story, it looked a little different with fewer checkpoints but nonetheless with a lot of running around, saving money, and dreaming big. And it took me seven months to plan my move. Following is a list of my checkpoints:

Researched about the city I wanted to move to
I worked and saved as much money as I could
Sold out all the personal belongings that I didn’t need in a new country
Purchased all the necessarily one-way-tickets
Booked hotel for the first week
Learned basic Spanish
I announced my plan to move abroad only to several close friends and parents.
I boarded a plane and enjoyed all my adventurous

The first time I admitted to myself that I wanted to move to another country was at the end of 2012 when I was finally over my divorce. I needed a fresh start or at least an adventure. And having an example of several of my friends who moved to Thailand a year before, I was easily inspired by the same idea. Though I hadn’t been to Asia, I knew from the beginning that I didn’t want to move there because, at that moment, I got interested in Spanish culture and started learning their language, the third one for me.

My choice of traveling in Spain and then moving to Cancun was influenced by a romantic story, which I described in the article “How did traveling solo with a one-way ticket changed my life.” So when I arrived in Cancun, I had only one red suitcase, a backpack with a camera and a Sony Vaio laptop. I didn’t have medical insurance because it wasn’t required to enter Mexico, and I never had it while living there. Some would call it irrational, but healthcare in Mexico is not as expensive as in the USA, and I didn’t have time to think about that because I was too focused on growing my photography business in Cancun.

When I arrived in Cancun, I stayed at the Hotel Suites Gaby for the first week and then moved to a small apartment rented to me by two amazingly kind Mexican women. I found that apartment walking around the streets nearby the hotel and paying attention to the sign that said “Se renta” (translated for rent). That’s a very common way to look for an apartment in Cancun. Two months later, I moved to Playa del Carmen, a small town an hour away from Cancun. There I lived for six years, then in 2020 moved back to Cancun, where I rented an apartment in Malecon Suites with a beautiful view of the hotel zone and lagoon.

Benefits of living in Cancun and Playa del Carmen

Low cost of living
Good food
Access to the beach all year round
The slow pace of life (sometimes too much)
Cheerful local vibes. That includes siesta and fiesta, dancing salsa, friendly hugs, being called “amiga” (English translation “friend”) by the majority of locals, and a chill-out mood penetrating all the surroundings.
No need for winter clothes, which automatically helps to save money

Disadvantages

Taxi. This topic deserves a separate article, which I will write later. In short, if you plan on moving or traveling to Cancun or anywhere around the Riviera Maya, be ready to deal with local taxis. As of 2023, there is no Uber, and the only available taxi apps don’t work properly. So, when you are downtown, you are forced to hail a taxi on the street or use local public transport unless you have your own car. Taxis like to overcharge tourists who don’t speak Spanish, and some vehicles are very old and smell “not nice,” to say the least.
Noisy. Dogs barking, loud music, and many parties don’t help with silence. So, when choosing an apartment for rent in Cancun or Playa del Carmen, make sure to check the neighborhood.
“Mañana” (translation – “tomorrow”) is a way of life. Sometimes tomorrow is not the day that comes after today. Maybe it will happen tomorrow, maybe now, nobody knows. That’s part of the culture and thus has to be accepted. That’s why, while living in Cancun, I always tried to plan my leisure and work activities with a possible delay in mind.
Extremely hot in summer, especially in July and August.

What to do when you move to another country?

The list of things to do when you move to a different country will be different depending on the purpose of your move and whether you do it alone or with your family. It’s always great to have a family support changing country of living, but it’s also possible to do it on your own. I was 31 when I moved abroad to a country I’d never been to. It was adventurous and exciting and helped me expand my life perception. It took me almost a year to get used to a new lifestyle, understand communication, and how to move around.

Starting my photography business several months after coming to Cancun helped me keep my mind busy and adapt faster. Based on my experience, I would say that the most important is to get connected to a local community, where you can make friends and learn some insights about the local lifestyle. This will add to a smooth transaction after moving to another country where everything is new.

Here is a list of activities that can help you get used to a new country and create welcome vibes in your new chapter of life.

Find ex-pats communities and connect; use Facebook or MeetUp.com
Maintain communication with your family and friends
Freelance or work remotely
Volunteer to stay connected with the local community
Explore the surroundings
Learn a new skill, for example, how to build a website, which is useful in our digital era.
Visit local art centers and libraries that unite people seeking creative activities.

That’s all for this article. If you have any questions about moving abroad or need inspiration, comment below, and I will be happy to cheer you up and share useful info.

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How aesthetic experience revived my enthusiasm for life

Elena Sullivan — Tue, 17 Sep 2024 01:34:30 +0000

I felt a sudden twitch inside me, and without thinking, I began rubbing my thumb and index fingers together. It instantly broke the calm I had reached through meditation.

When I opened my eyes, I noticed a line of golden light on the horizon.

It was slowly growing, brightening the early morning sky, and gently spreading its warmth over the buildings. The light moved closer, inching toward me. Still seated in the lotus position on the balcony, I heard birds begin to sing, adding to the peaceful moment as the day started to unfold.

Looking at the sky and reading the clouds, I could tell it was going to be a beautiful day—something I had learned after living in this “tropical paradise” for a while. The day was stunning, but as I watched the breathtaking scene, I felt nothing.

Over the past nine years, I’ve seen hundreds of beautiful sunrises over the sea, so many that I stopped counting or noticing the differences. To me, they all felt the same now.

Think about your favorite dessert. Now imagine eating it every day for nine years. Would you still enjoy it? Would you still look forward to that first bite? Would it still taste as delicious?

Can you get tired of endless summer vibes and constant sunshine? My answer is: “Yes!” But if you live in a place where it’s freezing and snows a lot, you might disagree—and I get it. I would have, too, back in 2013.

That October, I moved to Cancun from a city where it snows even in April, and the sun felt like a rare treat.

I had forgotten about the beauty of life and was craving the sun, warmth, and the Caribbean Sea. Every part of me longed for it.

When I finally experienced it for the first time, I was captivated and thought I could live there forever.

After nine years, my feelings about the place completely changed.

I went from thinking, “This is amazing! I want to stay here,” to “This is awful! I want to leave.” The place itself hadn’t changed much—it still looked amazing from a tourist’s point of view.

But I wasn’t a tourist; I lived and worked there. You could have called me a local, though I didn’t look like one. I knew the area so well, I could’ve been a guide, but I never felt like I truly belonged.

I love nature; its wildness is a source of pure inspiration.

But people are complicated. We’re always comparing, searching for something better, while still romanticizing the past and wanting more. Once you’ve tasted the instant gratification of city life, it’s hard to forget. That memory sticks with you, even when you’re walking peacefully through jungle paths near cenotes.

At some point, something will remind you of that past—like a ghost that vanishes just as quickly as it appears—leaving you with a lingering sense of its presence.

That’s when you realize that memories are always with you, following you wherever you go.

Living in Playa del Carmen for six years stirred up memories of my life in a bustling city filled with vibrant culture, bold art, and endless aesthetic experiences.

It made me question:

Do I really like it here? Am I comfortable?

The answer was clear: “No.” If I truly felt at home, I wouldn’t be asking myself these questions in the first place.

Craving the Aesthetic Experience

The word “aesthetic” comes from the Greek word ‘aisthētikos,’ meaning “to perceive, sense, or learn” and “related to perception by the senses.” So, you could say that “feeling life through all five senses” is another way to describe aesthetics.

Aesthetics is about experiencing life by fully engaging all your senses, sparking curiosity, and continuing to explore, which enriches both the mind and spirit. This ongoing process is what brings a sense of fullness to life. It’s like how the number of clothes in your wardrobe doesn’t matter as much as how you combine them to express your individuality, mood, and aspirations.

When I set off on my adventurous journey halfway around the world with a one-way ticket, it was my curiosity and desire to explore that drove me. I felt like the artist of my own life, loving the days when I lived freely, almost like a hippie, soaking up every moment of freedom.

Surrounded by the sea and sunshine, I believed that this feeling of divine, effortless joy would last forever.

After settling in Playa del Carmen and making the “tropical paradise” my home, I focused entirely on growing my photography business. In doing so, I quieted my curiosity and zest for life.

The practical, business-focused side of me took over and became the center of attention.

I focused on marketing, advertising, and promoting my photography business. I learned how to build websites on WordPress, write SEO-optimized articles, record and edit videos using Premiere Pro and After Effects, and use social media to grow my brand. I even learned a third language.

These efforts paid off, bringing financial success and a sense of accomplishment—a powerful combination that almost convinced me this was the ultimate happiness in life.

I grew up surrounded by art, European-style architecture, and diverse cultures. This environment became a fundamental part of me, shaping my understanding of life’s joy. It was deeply embedded in me, and difficult to remove.

Under the pressure of new and different circumstances, this part of me was silenced for a long time. But eventually, it stirred, demanding attention and letting me know something important was missing.

In the book “How to Get What You Want and Want What You Have,” John Gray talks about 12 “love tanks.” My “tropical paradise” tank, managed by the practical side of me, was definitely overflowing. I couldn’t handle any more of that.

What I was missing was the aesthetic experiences and beauty of life. I felt like a robot, going through the motions on autopilot.

Even my creative work, taking photos, had become routine because my only surroundings were sand, sea, and sky. At some point, I realized that despite the beautiful landscape, the sunshine, and the sound of the waves, I felt emotionally numb and uninspired.

For someone as endlessly curious as I am, a tropical paradise became a kind of trap—or maybe I turned it into one. To escape, I needed to reconnect with aesthetic experiences and fully engage my senses to truly feel alive again. I longed for the busy lifestyle I had left behind nine years ago.

My eyes craved the visual diversity of a big city, my ears missed the sounds of classy music, soft jazz in a bar, and opera. My hands wanted to touch cashmere and a furry coat.

I wanted to feel life deeply, rather than just existing in a place where my only connection was my photography business.

The lack of aesthetic experiences made me realize how important art and beautiful experiences are for maintaining a sense of balance in life.

How visual aesthetics revived my enthusiasm for life

Painting

My first attempt to bring visual beauty back into my life was through painting with oils and acrylics. Quickly, my living space was filled with colorful abstracts inspired by nature. Using brushes, palette knives, and sometimes my fingers to create these paintings was both enriching and calming. It also helped me release the stress from my “technical mode” life, which involved:

Sticking strictly to an agenda
Typing on a laptop or computer
Counting and calculating, always following rules
Taking photos
Staring at computer screens or camera displays
Multitasking every day

Painting with acrylics and oils became a meditative escape for me, allowing me to enjoy the creative process and lose track of time while simply having fun.

Theatre classes

Painting helped me reconnect with my creativity and gave me the courage to try new things. After finishing my eleventh painting, I started taking theatre classes in Cancun. Finding them was challenging because the “tropical paradise” seemed more focused on fun and drinking than on art. But I eventually discovered them at the “Casa de la Cultura” (House of Culture). Every Saturday, I spent three hours traveling there to learn and enjoy the classes.
I’m deeply grateful to the teacher for sharing their acting skills, helping us use our voices, understand our bodies, and communicate effectively. Being part of the theatre classes, performing on stage, and speaking in Spanish—my third language—gave me a wonderful sense of belonging.

When the pandemic hit, my aesthetic experiences came to a halt. For three months, I only expressed creativity and enjoyed beauty through writing and editing videos for my YouTube channel.

Golf Classes

Though I had never been a golf fan, living in Playa del Carmen and Cancun exposed me to golf culture. Many all-inclusive hotels have golf courses, which made the game a prominent part of the local scene. I was eventually drawn to the sport, and when life began to return to normal in Cancun, I decided to take golf classes.

It was my way of celebrating the return to “normal life” and recharging my enthusiasm for new activities, which led to something unexpected.

Rediscovering Femininity

The unexpected discovery was that I had lost touch with my femininity. Years of being a solopreneur, organizing vow renewals, and planning beach proposals had overshadowed this aspect of myself. This topic deserves its own article, which I plan to write later. For now, I want to mention that working with coach Candice Oneida and attending her master’s class helped me understand how I lost touch with my femininity. This process began with focusing on my personal style and starting to wear dresses again.

Flying Dresses

As a creative outcome of my rediscovery, I introduced Flying Dress photoshoots to my photography services. This addition brought a new level of visual pleasure into my life. The vibrant, flowing dresses reignited my enthusiasm for the creative side of my work. It also added a deeper meaning to my photography, as these photoshoots help women feel beautiful and empowered.

Mexico City

When flights resumed at the end of 2020, I traveled to Mexico City to unwind and see if my craving for visual beauty had been satisfied. As one of the largest cities in the world, with 152 museums and over 50 galleries, it was the perfect destination for me then. I visited two museums and a gallery and felt incredibly inspired. The trip was like a breath of fresh air, clearing doubts and stress and helping me see new opportunities for enriching experiences.

I returned home feeling inspired to turn my aesthetic loneliness into a rich and fulfilling experience and reignite my passion for life. It became clear that I couldn’t spend my entire life in a beach resort city where the only excitement came from the sand, sea, palm trees or parting in nightclubs.

Despite some debate about what constitutes aesthetics and aesthetic experiences, it’s not about luxury, money, or having the most expensive things. It’s not about the number of dresses, watches, purses, or cars or indulging in consumerism.

Instead, it’s about consciously and creatively using what you have to find balance and continue growing.

Aesthetics is the heartbeat of life, offering pleasure and insight through our senses. It sparks curiosity, which fuels our enthusiasm and interest in living fully.

Here’s how aesthetics revived my passion for life:

It helped me refine my schedule, balancing work, active leisure, and relaxation.
It showed me the joy of decorating my apartment with personal touches that make it feel like “home.”
It taught me that simply buying fresh flowers and placing them on the kitchen table can bring a smile to my face every time I see them.
It guided me towards self-love and self-care.
It made me reconsider the importance of art and creative activities, leading me to start embracing a “Fine Art Lifestyle.”
It enriched my life with interesting and fulfilling experiences, sparking my curiosity in new ways.

In 2022, I boarded a plane to New York, flying over Cancun. Looking out the window, I felt nostalgic for the beaches I had walked countless times. While I knew I wouldn’t miss them, they would always hold a special place in my heart, and I looked forward to returning for a short visit someday.

Let the tropical paradise remain as it is—a place of simple happiness. We need it to stay pristine, with the sounds of the ocean, soft sandy beaches, rustling palm leaves, the calls of seagulls, and romantic sunrises.

Mother Nature created such places to help us relax and feel content amidst our busy lives. It’s important to know these places exist for us to escape, recharge, and disconnect from the hectic world before returning to where we truly belong.

Aesthetics, the immeasurable feeling of life, requires balance. It includes light and dark, good and bad, rain and sun. Harmony exists with both elements present. For me, this balance includes aesthetic experiences and art. How about you?

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How to plan your first female solo trip?

Elena Sullivan — Sat, 14 Sep 2024 22:28:52 +0000

I was born in a place where opportunities to travel abroad were limited for most people, and I was among those unable to do so. But as time passed and circumstances changed, the chance to explore the world became possible for those ready to take the leap.

In 2013, at the age of 31, I flew on a plane for the first time in my life. For a month, I traveled alone in Spain, and at the end of that solo trip, I arrived in Mexico.

I had a one-way ticket, a suitcase, and a camera backpack. I knew basic Spanish and had money to cover only three months of stay. I didn’t have a precise plan, but I had a strong desire to stay and build a life in Cancun. And I did. Read the full story in the article “How traveling solo with a one-way ticket changed my life”

At 39, with a big milestone approaching, I found myself at another pivotal moment in life. It felt like the right time to share my journey and offer insights about solo female travel based on my experiences.

As I began reflecting on my female solo traveling, one of the first questions I asked myself was: when did my passion for this begin?

Looking back, I remembered a moment when I was 23, working a summer job at a woman-owned hostel in the heart of the city. I worked the day shift and had the chance to meet many solo travelers from Europe and the United States.

One day, a man in his 70s arrived at the hostel, and while I was checking him in, we struck up a pleasant conversation. He shared stories about the many countries he’d visited, and as we wrapped up, he said something that stayed with me:

“I’ve been to more than 40 countries, and I’ve realized that the world is so vast, one lifetime isn’t enough to see it all. But I keep trying!”

It wasn’t until after my divorce, though, that I finally decided it was my turn to start exploring the world.

One winter morning, while exercising at the gym, I had a sudden realization: “I’m 30 years old, and I’ve never traveled on a plane. How did that happen?” I was stunned and felt a bit of cultural shock. As I thought about it, I tried to understand why traveling solo had never crossed my mind, and the only reasonable explanation I could find was, “I never dreamt of traveling alone as a woman.” And you can only achieve what you dare to dream, so I started dreaming of taking trip alone.

Many activities in life are interesting, but only a few are truly captivating. These experiences require discovery, something that has always existed but feels new to you. Female solo travel fits that description perfectly.

Humans developed the capacity for travel over 70,000 years ago, when it was driven by necessity rather than luxury. Back then, our ancestors migrated from place to place in search of better climates and food. In the 21st century, we travel for work, pleasure, and self-discovery.

While the reasons have evolved, the essence remains the same—movement between distant locations. According to Merriam-Webster, the word “travel” comes from the French word “travail” and was first used in the 14th century.

Solo travel for women became more accessible at the end of the 19th and beginning of the 20th centuries, a history partly explored in the book The Women I Think About at Night: Traveling the Paths of My Heroes by Mia Kankimäki, which I enjoyed reading.

Recent studies show that women are now more likely to travel solo than men, and the numbers continue to grow. Are we more courageous? I like to think so, though I don’t consider courage when I’m traveling alone. Instead, I focus on embracing the new environment, seeking out the unique details that reveal a culture’s secrets.

I see solo travel as a deeply nurturing experience—a time to reconnect with my inner self and find inspiration to answer the question, “What’s next?”

But enough about the personal memoir. Let’s get to the practical side of traveling alone as a woman. The following information is based on my personal experiences.

How to plan your first female solo trip?

Step by step. If you’ve never traveled before, start by visiting a place close to your hometown. This will help you build confidence before embarking on a bigger journey. Before my solo trip to Spain, I traveled to Finland several times. It’s the closest foreign country, and the drive takes about 5–6 hours.
Don’t postpone—commit! Buy a non-refundable plane ticket. I purchased my ticket to Barcelona five months in advance. It was cost-effective and served as a motivational beacon, helping me plan every step of my solo trip. Visualization is great, but the magic happens when you take action!
Take time to choose your accommodation wisely. During my trip to Spain, I stayed in hostels, which worked out well. I was already familiar with the “hostel culture” in Europe, so I felt comfortable. Websites like Booking.com and Kayak provide detailed reviews, and the “Map” feature is particularly useful for checking the location.
Protect your documents, cards, and cash. This is a crucial step for ensuring the financial stability of your trip. Keep everything secure so you can fully enjoy exploring new cities with peace of mind.
Manage your expectations. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned from solo travel is that the less you expect, the more enjoyable the experience. I always create a list of sights I want to visit, but I avoid over-visualizing the excitement. Living it in your mind beforehand can take away from the actual joy of the moment.
Keep your accommodation details private. You can enjoy pleasant conversations without revealing the exact location of where you’re staying. Prioritizing your safety is key.
Walk, explore, and talk to people. During my female solo trip to Spain in 2013, I used a printed map (yes, you guessed right—Google Maps wasn’t available on my old Samsung phone), and it was a lot of fun. I felt like a true explorer, searching for hidden treasures. I’m not particularly skilled at reading maps, but necessity is a great teacher. Walking is the best way to discover a city’s hidden gems, and talking to locals can provide valuable insights—they know exactly where to find those treasures.

Bring a portable charger. After my recent solo trip to New York, I’ve added two essentials to my list: comfortable shoes and a portable phone charger. I spent hours each day exploring the city and taking countless photos with my iPhone, and a portable charger would have been a lifesaver. I’ll definitely bring one on my next trip.
Choose your destination with intention. Finland was my first foreign destination due to its convenient location and great food (especially the salmon!). Spain, on the other hand, was tied to romance, butterflies, and dreams (you know what I mean!). I’ll share more about that in a future article. Whatever country you choose, having a purpose beyond just sightseeing adds deeper meaning to the journey.
Write in a diary or journal. A new place, with its unique environment, culture, views, and scents, can spark fresh thoughts and ideas. I always bring a diary to capture these moments in words. There’s something romantic about writing with a nice pen in a well-crafted journal. Call me old-fashioned, but I find that putting my thoughts on paper adds a special joy to the trip.
Be prepared to turn off your phone and truly observe your surroundings. While I love taking photos with my phone, sometimes switching it to Silent mode and focusing on the present moment helps you notice details you might otherwise miss.
Keep it small. Share your solo travel plans only with people you trust and who will support you. When planning my trip to Spain, I told only a few close friends. I avoided discussing my plans with those prone to sarcasm or negativity. Planning a solo trip as a woman benefits from visual and verbal inspiration, so choose your circle of supportive and encouraging people wisely!

Solo trips for women are a timeless adventure that you can embark on at any stage of your life! Trust yourself and your ability to explore the world.

Plan your journey, enjoy the experience, and if you’d like to share the experiences of your solo travels, I’d love to hear about them in the comments!

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How to have an everlasting romance and passion for life?

Elena Sullivan — Tue, 13 Aug 2024 22:19:27 +0000

I woke up in the middle of the night, breathing heavily. My long hair stuck to my shoulders and back; my face was covered with tiny drops of sweat; I turned and lay down on my back, trying to calm down my breath. It was hot in the room; even an open window and a little ceiling fan didn’t help to cool down the temperature.

It was my eight’s year living in Cancun. I should have gotten used to this tropical heat, extreme humidity, and my body’s inability to tolerate an air conditioner, but I didn’t. I was lying and staring at the dark, pink sheets crumpled in the left corner of my queen size bed. Thoughts were rushing into my mind, and I was trying to understand if it was a nightmare that woke me up. Unfortunately, I couldn’t remember and instead concentrated on a confusing feeling of uneasiness.

I put my hands on my belly and started inhaling and exhaling deeply, trying to relax. After a while, this breathing exercise brought me a soothing feeling of clarity.

“I want to write,” – I mumbled. “I can’t even think of anything else.” I felt a physical need to open a laptop and type all the thoughts ready to burst out of my head. Those were the ones that woke me up. They wanted to be understood, conceptualized, and imprinted.

A week after the Global Pandemic was announced, I started writing and was utterly engaged in this creative process for three months. Every day I spent five-six hours doing that, and at the end of May 2020, I had two hundred thirty pages in my memoir. It wasn’t about passion for life but how to find it when you don’t know where to look.

That day, at 3.34 AM, after I calmed down my breath, I knew I wanted to write. It felt like some instinct had awakened in me, and the words were given to me by some invisible source. Was it magic? As much as I love the concept of magic and “Big Magic” by Elizabeth Gilbert is one of my favorite books, what I experienced can be better described as a reemerging passion for writing.

That early morning, the chapter I wrote was about love and my dear friend Alma Gonzalez who taught me how to say the words “Te Quiero” (in English, “I love you”) with grace and sincerity. Alma is a life coach with a beautiful spirit; her web project is called “Ama tu cuerpo con Alma.”

Love and passion are in the same group of feelings, so it doesn’t surprise me that I remembered this chapter while writing the article. You can read it following the this link, “Love is for everyone” (Spanish version “Tu tienes amor para todos”).

Do you have a passion for life?

Some dictionaries explain passion as a strong feeling of excitement for something or doing something. I understand passion for life as a concept described with simple words: I WANT and I WILL (to experience, to learn, to expand my own consciousness, to live through).

In everyday life, we use the word “I want” to explain our basic needs and desires. That’s when we say: “I want a cappuccino,” “I want a vanilla ice cream with Oreo,” “I want to watch Netflix,” “I want orange juice,” “I want to see what’s new on my Instagram” In a context of a passion for life we need to extend and elevate the meaning of “I want.”

My passion for life keeps growing every time I extend my list of “I want….” As of this date, it includes things like:

- visit all seven continents

- go on a Safari tour

- organize an exhibition to show my photography art

- wear a Dior dress (I love the story of the founder Christian Dior and his timeless, classy and elegant designs)

- do a TED talk

- have my photo studio

visit as many museums in the world as possible

It will be a big challenge to make all that happen, and that’s part of my passion for life. And such graceful challenges leave a delicious aftertaste once you set on a journey to make them happen.

My first deliberate passion for life was my desire to become a photographer, and I started learning every aspect of photo art. In 2007 I admitted to myself that I wanted to be a photographer.

The next period of my life filled with special passion was in 2013 when I discovered that “I want” to travel alone. I trusted that passion, allowed it to guide me, and in return, made the impossible possible in eight months. I went half-across the world with a one-way ticket, one suitcase, and a backpack to a country where I didn’t know anyone and didn’t speak the language. I describe this adventure in the article “How traveling solo with a one-way ticket changed my life?”

Passion for life has an individual character and goes hand in hand with the words “interest” and “curiosity.” It’s when you explore and ask questions about topics outside the comfort zone of your work and habitual hobbies.

How about:

trying some new cuisine or adding healthy snacks to the everyday diet
finding a new route to the office
adding some bright colors to the wardrobe
listening to a new music
taking cooking classes

Did you try something new recently? Share your experience in the comments section; I would love to hear from you.

Passion for life can manifest in simple, everyday actions. For example, when you walk along a street and notice fancy stores and some cute details that add character to the overall image of the place. The first time I walked around Avalon, located in Alpharetta Georgia’s downtown, I noticed a little squirrel peeking into the window of an Orvis store. At first, I thought it was alive, but coming closer, I realized it was a decorative statue.

Later on, I found out that there are several others squirrels statues randomly spread around Avalon. The mere process of discovering these squirrels infused me with joy and curiosity:

Why are they here?
Who is the artist who made them?
How did they come up with the idea?
Where did they make it (home or studio)?
How long did it take to produce them?”

There are many things to do in Avalon Alpharetta, most of which require spending money. However, just walking around, paying attention to little details, and wondering about the story behind them doesn’t cost money. The only investment is time and attention.

Feeling enthusiastic after will be your personal ROI. It’s not what investors expect, but it might energize your mind and spirit, thus attracting a creative influx in your life. And that is a necessary element in the overall success in life and business, which research has proven.

In general, observing and making Art offers so much to be curious and ponder about, and I’ll discuss it in the other article.

Every passion starts with a flirt and a romance

Now, I know I have a passion for life, but it wasn’t always that way. The journey to finding it was full of ups and downs.

As a teenager in the late 1990s, I believed that having various interests and hobbies was a sign of indecisiveness and wouldn’t benefit me in the future. One of these interests was writing. I enjoyed it, but I never considered becoming a writer or blogger, especially since this was before the widespread expansion of the Internet. I also loved theater and took several classes at a local art school. At 17, I became fascinated with the history and art of Egypt, spending several months visiting the local library to read everything I could find on the subject.

When I received an Olympus camera from my grandmother on my 15th birthday, I was thrilled. From then on, I always saved some pocket money to buy rolls of film. I took my camera everywhere and captured photos whenever I had the chance.

My parents, focused on their jobs and making ends meet, encouraged me to pursue an education in something more stable, like marketing, management, or foreign languages. Since I never had a strong affinity for mathematics, a degree in economics was out of the question. In 2005, I graduated from Saint Petersburg University of Culture and Art with a Master’s Degree in Art.

In my early 40s, I realized that it was perfectly fine to explore different hobbies and activities early in life. It was one of the best ways to discover what I truly enjoyed. Looking back, I now understand that it was normal for a young person starting out in life to try different things while figuring out her passions.

Flirting with life – trying out different creative activities as a way of finding a special one. That later can transform into a Romance (something more profound than flirt) and eventually into a Passion for life.

Aesthetics, Art, style, traveling, writing, and photography are my greatest passions. And all that started with a flirt. I learned to trust myself and follow my curiosity, like the main heroine in the book “Alice in Wonderland,” who followed the White Rabbit and had a fantastic adventure. I love being curious; it fuels my passion for life.

How to find a passion for life?

I found my passion for life by exploring life’s colorful palette of possibilities and expanding my own set of skills necessary to achieve my goals.

In 2013, when I arrived in Cancun, I didn’t know anything about WordPress and SEO optimization. Step-by-step, I learned how to build a website by doing it; trials-errors-wins were my way of expanding my set of skills. Later, my international website became a platform for my growing photography business in Cancun.

Passion for life is also a process of discovering what you like and later enjoying it. It’s less about complaining and more about encouraging; it’s not about looking for shortcuts but rather about unfolding your potential by inventing every next step on your way.

I am passionate about writing articles for my blog and photography website. And I do that because playing with my imagination in search of the right words excites me and gives me a sense of fulfillment and balance. It’s nice to scroll through my published articles, but I admit that my passion for writing comes first. Sometimes it takes hours to finish one paragraph, and other days minutes. But those moments of creative struggle make the whole process more delicious.

So, how to find a passion for life?

The short answer is to be more curious, ask more questions, try new experiences and trust yourself in that process.

Have you ever thought of learning a new language? Just for fun and not for any other reason. There are 7100 languages worldwide, so many of which are easy to learn and pleasant to listen to. Let’s take the phrase “have a romance with life” as an example and translate it into different languages:

Spanish – “tener un romance con la vida ”

Italian – “avere una storia d’amore con la vita”

French – “avoir une romance avec la vie”

Czech – “mít románek se životem”

German – “habe eine Romanze mit dem Leben”

Japanese “人生とのロマンスを持っています” (Jinsei to no romansu o motte imasu)

Okey! I know it looks and sounds different, but maybe it can help you bring passion to life. “Details matter!” and sometimes the answer is in the least expected place and/or experience.

If you feel stuck and are looking for a passion for life, I would highly recommend reading a book by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi “Finding flow.” The psychology of engagement with everyday life”. I found it very helpful when rebuilding my passion for life.

Savor the little things, and may creative energy always surround you!

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How can enriching experiences help you to upgrade your life?

Elena Sullivan — Thu, 25 Jul 2024 19:34:34 +0000

EXPERIENCE.

One word with a multitude of facets, different characters, and an unlimited choice of outcomes.

I wish I had known the positive side of “experiencing” sooner, but it wasn’t until I was thirty-one that I intentionally immersed myself in an experience that ultimately transformed my life. As a single, divorced woman with one suitcase, a backpack containing a camera and laptop, a one-way ticket, and only three thousand dollars in my bank account, I embarked on a solo journey abroad. With limited Spanish skills, I traveled around Spain for a month, eventually ending my trip in Cancun, Mexico, where I stayed for the next nine years. This enriching experience was the culmination of several years of personal growth and other challenging yet nourishing experiences.

It’s never too late or too early to have an enriching experience. Our backgrounds and cultural values shape the types of experiences we need at different stages of life. Yet, one thing remains constant: we all need to experience because it is the core of action—the essence of life.

Listen to my podcast “Trust the Dress”, the episode “How enriching experiences can help you feel happier and inspired.” Just press the Play button below.

What is Experience?

The meaning of “experience” (verb):

The process of living through an event or series of events.
Practical contact with and observation of facts or events; an activity one has performed.

I understand “experience” as an active and conscious process of doing something.

Research by Amit Kumar, Assistant Professor of Marketing and Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, shows that investing money in experiences rather than possessions makes people much happier. Kumar holds a Ph.D. in Social Psychology from Cornell University and an A.B. in Psychology and Economics from Harvard University. His findings were published in the Journal of Experimental Social Psychology.

In the context of a “Fine Art Lifestyle,” experiences can include: visiting museums (like the Metropolitan Art Museum in New York) or theatres, exploring galleries, appreciating classical art, educating oneself, participating in art studios (painting, theatre, pottery, sewing, etc.), purchasing art, developing personal style, maintaining an organized home, workplace, and mind, practicing visibility, staying mindful, and engaging in other activities that offer an elevated, positive vibration.

It’s never too late or too early to have an enriching experience. Our backgrounds and cultural values shape the experiences we need at different points in life. However, one thing remains constant: we all need to experience because it is the core of action—this is life.

What is an enriching Experience?

To enrich means to improve or enhance the quality or value of something, to add beauty, or to make something richer, especially by adding or increasing a desirable quality, attribute, or ingredient.

An enriching experience is one undertaken with firm intention.

An enriching experience is an active process that you live through in reality. In contrast, a “borrowed experience” occurs when, for example, you watch a YouTube video of a travel blogger and perceive it as if you had been traveling yourself.

Do you want to upgrade your life? Activate your growth mindset by focusing on what you experience daily. Improve the quality and sometimes even the central theme of your experiences. By doing this, you stimulate neuroplasticity—the brain’s ability to change and adapt as a result of experience.

“Today, we define prosperity, being wealthy, we think it’s great to be able to pay people to do things, and be more automated and maybe just sit in our chair and press buttons. But I don’t think that’s the way our brains define prosperity. The richest scenario is a scenario in which a brain is an active player. When we engage in an experience, we are using certain areas of our brains, and if they are used in association frequently, they will build what we call neural networks. And so, you become more proficient and more efficient with these behaviors. But newly formed mental natural pathways are fragile, so repetition and practice are essential for a new brain map.” Kelly Lambert, behavioral neuroscience, University of Richmond.

Enriching experiences are meant to enhance the quality of your life – upgrade it.

Here are some stories from my personal life experience to better illustrate how it works.

In 2005, I graduated from Saint Petersburg University of Culture and Art with a Master’s Degree in Art. Unsure of how to apply my degree, I changed jobs several times over the next two years. By 2007, after extensive research and journaling, I discovered my passion for photography. I always carried my compact camera with me, capturing moments at every gathering with friends.

Soon after, I began learning the technical aspects of photography and upgraded from a compact Nikon Coolpix to a professional Nikon D70. This shift to exploring the artistic side of photography had a profound positive impact on my personal life. Previously, I saw myself merely as a merchandiser working in a store (similar to Walmart).

This new passion set me on a path to becoming a professional photographer and artist. It required a significant change in my environment, so I redesigned the room where I lived with my first ex-husband. As I elevated my photography skills and started my own solopreneur photo business, I made a more crucial upgrade—leaving an abusive relationship. This transformation led to incredible personal growth and a deep sense of happiness.

My International Experience

In 2009, I began working at the Holiday Inn in Saint Petersburg, a city known for attracting many international tourists. Having lived and studied there for eleven years, I was excited about the opportunity. However, I faced several challenges initially, particularly with speaking English. Despite learning the language since I was five, I had limited speaking practice. Working at the hotel, first at the reception and later as a concierge, significantly improved my English and exposed me to international tourism.

Interacting with people from around the world broadened my perspective on life. I realized there are countless opportunities beyond my familiar surroundings and that the world is too vast and exciting to remain in one city. This experience made me yearn for more from life and ultimately led to a transformative travel experience in 2013.

I use the term “revolutionary” to convey the profound impact of these realizations. Born in the former Soviet Union, where dreaming of traveling abroad was viewed as inappropriate and almost traitorous, this shift in thinking represented a departure from my past and opened new horizons for me.

My Solo Travel Experience

I didn’t know how to travel solo until I tried it for myself. I had no idea how to find the best airplane tickets or book hotels until I did it on my own. I discovered how much courage I had only after traveling solo and moving to a new country. Through this journey, I rediscovered myself. My story would not have been possible without the truly enriching experience of traveling alone.

Experience Fashion and Style

Clothes are an essential part of our identity. There’s a difference between buying clothes on sale and thoughtfully combining items from your wardrobe to create an elegant look. For instance, during my healing process after my second divorce, I used elegant dresses to shift my self-perception—from feeling like a “female dude” to embracing my identity as an elegant, independent, feminine woman.

Enriching experiences are those that push you out of your comfort zone and foster personal growth. They go beyond the mundane, with diversity being a key element in making these experiences truly valuable.

What are "Fine Art Lifestyle" experiences?

I use “Fine Art Lifestyle” to encompass activities and experiences that can ultimately enhance and upgrade your life.

External experiences that can help elevate your life include:

Visiting museums
Exploring galleries
Attending theatre, opera, or ballet performances
Walking around the city, paying attention to architecture, and finding interesting details in buildings
Spending more time with positive people
Investing in healthy food
Exercising regularly and increasing your walking
Trying yoga and meditation
Learning a new language
Traveling to a country where you don’t speak the language
Taking painting classes, learning to play a musical instrument, and engaging in creative activities like making art, music, or sewing
Paying attention to the interior design of your home
Enhancing your environment (home and, if possible, work) with elements that boost enthusiasm
Incorporating vibrant colors into your wardrobe (black and white aren’t the only stylish options)
Experimenting with different colors, textures, and styles in your clothing, using Pinterest for inspiration
Adding colorful dresses or shirts to your wardrobe to boost self-confidence
Dressing up for yourself at home, not just at work. Practice matching different clothing items and avoid defaulting to black pants or a simple grey or blue dress. Be intentional about combining various wardrobe pieces.

Internal experiences that can help upgrade your life include:

Quit complaining
Smile and laugh more
Avoid gossiping or putting others down
Practice mindfulness
Focus on deep, slow breathing
Regularly ask yourself, “What do I want?”
Let go of the need to control everything
Before agreeing to something, ask yourself, “Do I really want to do this?” rather than just trying to be agreeable
Practice “Power Poses” as described in Amy Cuddy’s book, Presence

How can enriching experiences help you boost self-esteem?

Self-esteem is the confidence and satisfaction you have in yourself, reflecting your overall opinion of your abilities and limitations. Healthy self-esteem helps you feel good about yourself and see yourself as deserving of others’ respect.

For many years, I struggled with low self-esteem. Looking back, I see a younger version of myself who doubted her abilities and felt inferior to others. The constant comparison to others was a painful and futile struggle, as there will always be people who have something you don’t or who have experienced things you haven’t.

Since my healing journey after my second divorce, I adopted an affirmation that has been transformative: “The only person I compare myself to is the person I was yesterday.” This approach has been very effective for me.

So, how can enriching experiences help boost self-esteem?

Enriching experiences involve doing things you initially thought you were incapable of achieving.

During my first divorce, I was plagued by countless low-vibrational thoughts that kept me trapped in fear. Questions like, “What if I can’t pay the rent? What if I get fired? What if no one wants my photography services? What if I don’t meet a good partner in the future? What if I made a mistake? What if I should have stayed with him because he was familiar? What if something happens to me when I’m alone and there’s no one to help?” and many more “What ifs” dominated my mind.

But guess what happened? My fears proved to be baseless.

I managed to pay my rent and even save money. I traveled, lived healthily and happily on my own, read extensively, and conducted photo sessions. I enjoyed an active social life, visiting museums, galleries, the theatre, and ballet. I also donated several boxes of black clothes from my marriage and refreshed my wardrobe with colorful pieces.

I doubted my ability to live on my own, but I succeeded. This experience was a significant boost to my self-esteem.

Magic happens when you take action!

Your body needs to experience things to convince your mind that you can achieve and deserve much more.

To make positive changes, you need to act.

It starts with a small, brave thought, and with the right environment and consistent reinforcement, it grows into a strong belief and actionable experience.

Here’s how enriching experiences can upgrade your life:

Elevate Your Self-Esteem: Engaging in new experiences can boost your confidence and self-worth.
Bring Positive Vibes: Novelty, when applied harmoniously across different areas of life, creates good energy.
Gain New Perspectives: Enriching experiences offer fresh viewpoints on life and reveal what’s available beyond your usual surroundings.
Clarify Your Goals and Mission: These experiences help you define your goals and personal mission more clearly.
Embrace Diversity: Differences enrich our experiences and help us grow.
Encourage Change: Repeating the same actions and expecting different results is futile. Enriching experiences highlight areas where you can make changes for better outcomes.
Revitalize Motivation: New experiences can reignite your drive and enthusiasm.
Move Beyond Survival Mode: Art and enriching experiences show that life has more to offer than just getting by.
Find Beauty Within: True beauty starts from within. The richer your experiences, the more beauty you’ll feel inside.
Nourish Your True Self: Enriching experiences are essential for nurturing and discovering your authentic self.

You can’t change your life by passively watching videos on social media.

You need real action.

Dream big and act on those dreams.

You don’t become a traveler by watching travel bloggers—you become one by experiencing it yourself.

Believe you can achieve your goals, take action, and you’ll upgrade your life!

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A short inspirational story about a personal challenge

Elena Sullivan — Mon, 06 May 2024 01:17:06 +0000

October 21, 2013. 8 PM

The doors slid open, and she stepped outside. Everything looked unfamiliar except the lights from the tall lanterns illuminating the main exit of the International Airport. This light is always the same, bright, warm, and welcoming.

Half an hour ago, the plane where she was one of the hundreds of passengers landed in Cancun, Mexico. Everyone clapped their hands and hurried to leave the plane.

She spent eleven hours in the sky, flying from one continent to another. The Atlantic Ocean somewhere below and the blue sky on the top maintained a picturesque equilibrium she needed to think about her life. A cozy seat near the window with a beautiful view of fluffy white clouds made it easier to relax.

She needed this peaceful time.

A short inspirational story continues...

She had only a one-way ticket when she checked in for her flight to Madrid. All the others she used while traveling around Spain on her own with one suitcase and a backpack.

A 31-year-old woman was exploring new places, walking and taking photos, having short-engaging conversions in a language she barely understood, and embracing as much of the new culture as possible. She was learning to enjoy a moment and kept moving forward.

An evening before the flight, she was sitting in a small bar near the prodigious Cibeles fountain in the heart of Madrid. It took six years to build it, and the first brave step was for the architect to envision this monumental masterpiece. Then one step at a time, one stone after another, and centuries later, it is still a great reminder of its creator’s efforts.

She took one more sip of wine and wrote in her travel diary: “I feel this is a pivotal point in my life, and I must admit I am afraid… I have no job; I am a thousand miles away from my family and friends, and I don’t know anyone there. What am I going to do if my plan doesn’t work? What if I run out of money? How am I going to learn a language? I don’t know…now… I will figure it out when I am there. One thing I know for sure is that I am not going back.”

Her best friend, helping her pack, said: “You are brave! I hope you realize it!”

She answered: “Am I? I just know I want it! After all the drama I had in my life in the last two years, I feel a peaceful need for a big change. And it’s now or never!”

Seven months before that, she made her first international solo one-day trip to Helsinki, Finland. And later that month bought her first one-way ticket, which became the starting point of her big trip.

One word at a time, one ticket at a time, one step at a time. Tiny, graceful changes multiplied by hundreds of days per year will always give the result. But you start with one. Just one.

P.S. This inspirational story is based on real-life events that happened in 2013 with the author of this story – photographer Elena Sullivan.

When I landed in Cancun, Mexico, I had one backpack with a camera, a laptop, and one suitcase, where I stored all my life’s belongings. I knew little Spanish and had only 3000 dollars in my bank account.

I stayed in Cancun for nine years, built a successful photography business, learned Spanish, and was published in The New York Times.

One of the things I learned on that journey is that WE ARE ALL BRAVE!

That’s a power we all possess since we are born, but to turn it on, we need to act, and sometimes it means stepping into the unknown and learning new things.

In 2022 I bought another one-way ticket because every adventure needs a sequel.

Thank you for reading!

Get ready to be inspired as I discuss how staying curious, being creative, and saying “YES!” to adventures that involve exploring what’s behind the comfort zone helps develop courage, embrace one’s true self, and navigate life’s challenges. Join me in uncovering the power of these transformative experiences and discover how they can ignite your own journey toward confidence and fulfillment.

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How to change your life in a year with seven creative steps.

Elena Sullivan — Sat, 04 May 2024 23:43:10 +0000

Sometimes life looks like a big puzzle, and to make it work, you have to change something.

The video version of “How to change your life in a year with seven creative steps” is at the end of the article.

Everything changes, and it’s okay to want to change your life or make some little adjustments every once in a while. It has been proved by many research that human beings are very capable of adapting to a new lifestyle based on new circumstances. Therefore, I see change as something positive that allows growth and evolution.

At the beginning of 2013, I was stuck in negative thinking, I knew I wanted to change my life, but I didn’t know where to start.

At some point, I wanted to travel abroad, but I never did it before, and I didn’t know how to travel solo. I was afraid of that. At the end of that year, after applying 7 creative hacks I traveled halfway across the world to a country I’d never been to; I didn’t speak a language, I didn’t know anyone there, and, to be honest, I didn’t have a detailed plan of how to start a new chapter of my life in the new country. I stayed there for nine years, built a photography business, and I was published in The New York Times. Following the next link, you can read about my adventurous trip.

How to change your life in a year with seven creative steps.

1 – CURIOSITY

The word curiosity means a strong desire to know or learn something.

How can it help you to change your life? Every day we all have internal monologues where we tend to judge or praise ourselves. That’s when we say: “I love this,” or “I don’t like that,” and so on. Changing the character of those monologues can help to change your life.

In 2013, I complained a lot about my life and repeated the same negative words daily. Then, applying curiosity, I started asking myself questions that began with words like: “Why? How? What?”

Why do I have the life I have?
How can I change it?
What do I need to do to change it?

Those questions helped me to arouse curiosity about myself. I wanted to expand my perception of life and find out what more I could do to change my life. All that led me to the second step.

2 – REPLACEMENT

I replaced old thinking patterns with new ones. I stopped complaining, and instead, I became open to new ideas. I started thinking about ways to change my life.

The second step is replacing negative with positive and destructive thoughts with creative ones. If you look at the word can’t, it’s very easy to replace it with positive. You need to remove one letter – T.

Let’s say you want to change your job, but whenever you think about it, you say: “I can’t change because of this….” Replace the word I can’t, try and say I CAN, write it down, and give your mind a reason to generate ideas about why and how you can do it. For example, maybe you want to travel but don’t have the finances to do that. Replace “I can’t travel because I don’t have money” with “I want to travel to… (for example, to Italy) and add how can I do that.

3 – BRAVERY

It’s not only physical; it’s also spiritual and emotional. That’s very important because to change your life means upgrading it, which requires thinking big, dreaming big, and imagining something you’ve never had before. And to do that, you have to be brave. So, my dear, be brave in imagining the life you want and all the positive changes you want to make.

4 – ADJUSTMENT

Adjusting your lifestyle to the new goals is a necessary step. There is no way you can skip it. In my case, when I said I wanted to change my life and travel, I had to make some adjustments:

I started learning a new language
I became disciplined with my finances and saved as much as I could
I cut down my rent payment by moving into a smaller apartment; to be more precise, it was just a room.

Depending on what you want to change in your life, you will also need to make some adjustments. I suggest thinking about it as a creative investment in your future.

5 – CONCENTRATION

It’s like meditating, connecting to the main idea of a change you want to see in your life. When you concentrate, you direct all your energy to one particular goal you plan to achieve. And where you put your energy, you will see the results. So concentrate on your goals and dreams and let your energy flow in the direction that will generate positive changes.

6 – ACTION

This is one of the most important steps. Dreaming and envisioning a change you want to make in your life is the beginning. Action is the core of all transformation. Sometimes this step feels especially scary, but it’s necessary because nothing will ever change without it. It’s your life, and you choose the intensity of every step in the change process. Be ready to act. And, like I love to repeat: “It’s now or never.” Don’t wait until the stars align and you feel like you are ready to act. Instead, set a goal, make a plan, and act.

7 – JUST ONE

In 2013 my main goal was to travel solo; I didn’t wait for my friends because everyone had a different schedule and lifestyle. I knew that I wanted to travel, and that was my main goal that year, and I did it. Just one. One goal. I dedicated all my attention to one change I wanted to see in my life, which helped me stay more focused. So, if you’re going to change your life in one year, choose one goal and plan all your actions around it.

There is an old saying by Rumi: “As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.” If you know only one, the first step you need to make to change your life – do it; the next one you will see once you start.

That’s it for today. I hope these seven creative hacks will be helpful and you will make a positive change in your life. Share this article with a person you think might need to read it, and let me know your questions in the comments; I will make sure to answer.

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